Help for Genital Warts

I have been in a relationship for over a year and i recently went to the doctor to discover that i have genital herpes. i am not conviced that my boyfriend gave it to me we are in a really committed relationship is it possible that i could’ve gotten it any other way? how long can someone have it in there body before the doctors can tell? because we went to the doctor 6 months ago and we were fine.

I want to get the vaccine for hpv but I already had one strain? Can I?

I was told I could have trouble conceiving if I have incurable STD’s.
My husband and I just want to know if its possible.

I’ve already have high risk HPV, I want to know if I can get gardisil vaccine?

I was told that i have the HPV right before i was going to get the vaccine. The Dr never gave the shot to me.So now i dont know if getting the shot is useless or what. I told my school nurse i already have the virus when she tried to give me the vaccine and she looked at me all confused and said i dont get it. . . . What do i do? Keeping getting the shot or not?