Help for Genital Warts

lol weird question but i totally freaked when i saw this bump between my anus and vagania kinda but not really more towards my anus. anyways im 16 and one day i wake up to this inflamed bump it was super painful wen i peed so everytime i went pea id hop in the shower. i swore i had an std not until recently i got checked and i didnt have nothing YAY but i didnt tell my doctor about the bump, i was to scared. i didnt wana face the fact that i might hav had genital warts but anyways. it hurt to the touch of it and it was imflamed. it wasnt until a few days ago my gramma said something about her having hemerhoids when she was prego and i asked her what it was she couldnt explain it but told me what it was like. i was like wooow, “to myself i was thinking it sounds the same” and then i did the math. pregnant women are overweight. “im over weight severley, im 298 pds i was 324 at the time but then 2of my close friends are over weight. one of them had sex w. the same guy as me and she said she had the same thing and that is why i thought he gave me sumn but she got tested too and she didnt have anything and my other friend is still a virgin but she had it befor too. is it hpv or what? i got my hpv shots and a bump hasnt occured since. not to mention everysincei was like 10yrs old i had one lump on the top of my vagina like where my lips are like off and on until i got my hpv shots and i havent had one in a yr but anyways, my friend is a virgin and she had the bump to and also the one by the anus to and we think its cause we are overweight! can someone plz help me. we’re too embaressed to tell anyone.
and dont tell us we need to lose weight. because all of us have been on a strict diet. i dont need any rude comments

A while back , my gynecologist diagnosed me with Genital Warts and told me it was caused by HPV. So she wrote me a prescription for Aldara cream and sent me on my way. But when my tests results came back to the gynecologist, I was negative for HPV. So how the hell do I have this ? That was about 8 months ago. The bumps are still there, and I have breakouts maybe every 2 months. I got tested again about three months ago for HPV and I was STILL negative. So, someone explain to me what’s going on. If anyone has anything negative to say, I suggest you move on from my question.
Thanks everyone .

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if i went to the doctors a lil over a year after the only time i had sex but wasnt having an outbreak of genital warts/ hpv would the results come back and say i have it??

i know hpv is not detectable in men but gential warts is a sympton i know.

What aout for females, can they still develop cervical cancer if they aquired HPV through oral sex. And i also heard if you get actual warts that means that it most likely noncancerous HPV. true?